David (& others),
I hear hear where you're coming from. I also live in So Cal, so the So Cal Gen Con was really easy to get to. I attended all of them, and when it was dropped, my wife let me go to the 07 one. Since it was my first Indy Gen Con, I didn't have anything that big to compare it to. I missed going this year, but am well into prepping for attending in 09.
You're not the first person to indicate they didn't have a good time, and that is a bit of a concern for me. I will still go, but it sounds like I better not get my hopes up.
Before I get too far into my post, and need to start defending myself, let me say this, in agreement with what I think David was saying: The con is different things to different people. Some go for the the social aspect, others to try new games, get their geek on, compete in events, attend seminars, etc. So for what David, and others have mentioned (which were some of the reasons I DO like to go), I'm worried.
For me, I go alone, like to shop the Hall, check out new products, try new games, get the latest news, do a seminar, and pick up some swag. I'm a bit shy to jumping into a D&D game with people I don't know, since I'm more of a ROLL-player than a ROLE-player. I don't get the feeling I'd be as welcome...but that's just me (based on posts over the couple years here). Somewhere else someone posted something to the effect that one should not be ENTITLED to swag. I totoally get his position, but personally, I think I am. I've been a D&D player for over 25 years and can't even guess how many 100's of $$$'s I've spent on product. I feel that a little kick-back, in the form a book here, and a plastic fig there is more than fair. Last year they gave away an Axis & Allies booster, and I promptly came home and bought 2 staters and 20 boosters. Do I think I am entitled to that free booster, yes, I do. (now, freebies to games I don't play, aren't "swag," they are trash, so I get that those freebies are "lost" on me).
I also know that Gen Con is not WOTC, and they are not responsible for my air-fare, hotel, car rental, etc. HOWEVER, they are part of MY expenses to get out there, and hence part of my experience. I feel that since I make the effort (and pay the cost) to go, I'd like to see some "thanks" for my effort from companies that I support with my consumer $$$'s. AGAIN, this is how >>> I <<< feel. No need to flame or justify...we're all entitiled to feel how we fee, right? When I spend 100's flying out, renting a room, and spend time at the booth, and $$$ on their product, I'd like to see some "love" from WOTC (since I'm mainly into D&D, that's the "love" I'd appreciate the most). When I hear that swag sucked, and from personal experience have been treated coldly by WOTC booth staff the last few times, I'm concerned.
Now, if the Hall is not a major attraction for a specific person, I can see why it matters little. I'd love to just spend 1 day at in the hall, and the other three days playing D&D, but like I said, I go alone and don't have the network to jump into a game I'd enjoy. I had a friend play in a RPGA event at So Cal GC, and he was bored to tears and got up and left mid game. I just don't have to heart to do that, and being stuck in a bad game at Gen Con...well, that would just hurt. So, I just spend my time in the Hall, trying demos, checking out new products, and wandering the halls & rooms in search of gaming in action.
Are you still reading this? Really? Wow, ok...I'm about done.
In the end, I'll go out this coming year and make the most of it. It (the WHOLE experience) will likely determine if I come back afterwards or not. I'm only 1 person, so I know GC & WOTC care not. I do look forward to meeting Faepooka (& spouse) in person, and perhaps I'll have the guts to join an independant D&D game.
David, if you decide to go, I hope you & your sone have a better year than this one past.